Just because a tip or suggestion is in this list, it doesn’t mean it is one you should try.

Your girl might have serious reservations, phobias or even religious taboos against certain lovemaking acts. You have to respect and honor that. One of you might find a position or move to be exciting and pleasurable while the other finds it uncomfortable. You should never ask your girl to do something she does not enjoy.

On the other hand, if they offer because they know it gives you much pleasure, then it is quite appropriate and loving.

Some ideas might not be your “style” and that is all right too.

1. Treasure Hunt

Look in your closet.
Get the passion flowing with a seductive treasure hunt. Begin with a hand-written note in an envelope that tells your love to look in the freezer (or other location) if they want to make love. In that location, leave a piece of sexy underwear, love toy or other item with a note that takes them to the next location. Lead them to several different spots, which finally leads to you or a note that gives a time and place for some awesome lovemaking.

2. Ice Kisses

Cold as Ice.
Increase the excitement of your kisses by putting your tongue on ice or sip a frozen drink before puckering up.

3. Hot Kisses

So Hot!
Heat your kisses up by drinking hot tea (coffee breath is usually awful) or hot chocolate. Make sure your tongue is sufficiently warmed up before you massage your mate’s lips with your lips and tongue.

4. Peppermint Foot Massage

Reflexology Time.
Give your sweetheart a pampering foot massage with peppermint oil or lotion.

5. Warm And Fluffy

Dry Yourself Up.
Dry with a warm fluffy towel.

6. Spice Up Your Missionary

Put Your Legs In The Air.
The missionary style gets a bum rap a lot of times but a little variety can really spice it up. Ladies, try sticking your legs straight up and cross them.

7. Mirror Doggie-Style

Mirror, Mirror on the wall…
Find a large sturdy mirror, put it on the floor and make love doggie-style on top of it.

8. Mardi Gras Mask

Add an air of mystery.
Find a Mardi Gras mask and wear it during your next lovemaking session. It adds an air of mystery and introduces a playful side.

9. Wash Each Other’s Hair

Including sensual scalp massage.
As a prelude to lovemaking, take the time to wash each other’s hair, including a sensual scalp massage.

10. Wash Her Pubic Hair Too.

Because it’s hair too.
While you are washing your lover’s hair, shampoo, massage and rinse their pubic hair too.

11. Hot Car-Hood Sex

Don’t Forget To turn the engine off.
When it is cool or cold outside, drive around a little bit until the engine is warm and end back in your garage (motor off) or other safe spot to make love on the warm hood.

12. No To Squeaking Bed

Instant mood killer.
Banish the squeaking bed. For many it can kill the mood in seconds.

13. Pimp-Up Your Bed

Because That’s where magic happens.
While you are at it, invest in pillows that can be used as lovemaking props or just to make the bed look more alluring.

14. Don’t Wait Until He’s Fully Erect

Suck on him while he’s limp.
You don’t need to wait until your guy is erect until you put it in your mouth. He’ll enjoy the sensation of you sucking on him while he is limp. You can take him all and the sucking motion will have him at full attention in no time.

15. Show-Off Your Muscles

New Way to make push-ups.
If you are fit, show off your muscles by doing naked push-ups while she is under you. When you are finished exercising, penetrate her. The more you can do, the more ready each of you will be.

16. Lift Up Your Missionary

A couple of pillows never hurt anyone.
In any of the missionary positions, put a couple of pillows beneath her buttocks. It will raise her hips and she will feel deeply penetrated. This isn’t suggested if the guy is too long already.

17. Bubbly Toast

Take a sip.
Pour a little bubbly into your belly button and invite your girl to take a drink.

18. Fizzy Stimulation

Champagne is not only for drinking.
Use some of the champagne by pouring it between her legs for some fizzy stimulation.

19. Ear Massage

It’s eay and enjoyable.
An ear massage can be quite enjoyable. Use a light amount of warm massage oil and rub the ear between your thumb and forefinger.

20. Simultaneous Orgasms — Over-Rated!

Learn To Walk Before You Run.
Simultaneous orgasms usually are quite over-rated. Instead of aiming for one orgasm that you share together, first work together to bring her to full climax that both of you enjoy and at some point afterwards it is his chance to concentrate on his own explosion. That way each partner gets to enjoy the energy of two (or more) orgasms. Women often become more aroused after they orgasm so when he orgasms after her she will enjoy the sensations all the greater.

21. It’s Not About The Orgasm

…Though it’s a great side benefit.
Most guys feel like they are failures if they are not able to bring their girl to orgasm. Sometimes this is the case when he ejaculates prematurely, other times it is just that she wasn’t able. Guys, realize that for most women, the ultimate goal of lovemaking is not to orgasm like it is for most men. A great side benefit yes, but not necessary to fully enjoy the lovemaking session.

22. Have Orgasms Together

Let Your Partner Know.
Having orgasms together every once in a while does have its benefits. While it is typically more enjoyable to have simultaneous orgasms during penetration where you can feel each other’s body, you can also aim to get there with side-by-side masturbation. Use a numbering system of 1-5 where you count out loud until you both reach 5 (orgasm) together. The first one to 4 needs to try to stay there until the partner catches up so you can explode side by side.

23. Nibble Her Earlobe

…then Breath Gently.
When she is feeling really aroused, nibble lightly on her earlobe and breathe gently into her ear.

24. Men Like Tongue In Their Ear

Few don’t.
It is rare a man who does not like a tongue in his ear.

25. Women Hate Tongue In Their Ear

Few Do.
It is rare a woman who does like a tongue in her ear.

26. Towel Seduction

You can leave your head on.
After you have come out of the shower, seduce your woman with just a towel wrapped around your waist.

27. Be Clean

So freash, so clean.
The vast majority of women do not want to go to bed with a guy who is sweaty or smells.

28. Put Up A Strobe Light

Improve Your love shack.
For a funk-a-delic time, put up a strobe light in the love shack.

29. Ladies, On Your Backs!

New Way To satisfy your man.
Ladies, on your backs. Have your guy lie on top of you and then get up on his hands and knees. Kiss him from his chest and go south as you continue to scoot down to his privates. Using your hands, lower his hips so you can put his testicles in your mouth (both at the same time if possible).

30. Lovemaking Diary

Dear Diary…
Keep a diary of your lovemaking through the years. At certain times take out the diary and read back in graphic detail previous encounters with your Lady. The only kind of erotica you will ever need.

31. Tree House Fun

While your kids are out of town.
Try out your kids’ tree house when they are out of town. You will love sharing that story with them when they get older.

32. Showerhead Massage

Take a bath together.
Take a bath or shower together and use that massager showerhead on each other. Save the genitals for last.

33. New Sex Locations

Go for a sex location hunt.
Walk through your house and yard with your girl and write down all the locations where you think you could possibly make love. Put all the locations on pieces of paper and put them in a jar. Take turns over the coming months picking out a piece of paper to see where the lovemaking session will be.

34. Penis Massage

New angle to massage.
Put a little massage oil on her breasts and use your penis to massage her breasts and nipples.

35. Stop Smoking

Why you should stop smoking now!
Smoking gives you absolutely terrible breath. Not only that, nicotine greatly reduces testosterone level. If you desire a more fulfilling love life, stop smoking.

36. This Might KILL Your Woman!

Warning!
NEVER blow into a woman’s vagina. The air bubbles can get picked up into the bloodstream and in some cases can be fatal.

37. Best Month For Sex

A month for a romantic getaway.
The male testosterone level tends to peak in October. A great month to schedule a romantic getaway.

38. Ask

When in doubt - ask.
Once a woman’s clitoris is fully aroused, it might be too sensitive for direct stimulation. It varies in women. Ask.

39. Do It High-Class

Rent A Limo.
Rent a limo that has a privacy screen and have the driver drive as long as you think you need to have an amazing lovemaking experience in the back.

40. Write Notes On Her Back

Use Your Fingers
With your fingers, write messages on your lover’s back. Maybe they will be special requests or simply little love notes.

41. Too Tired For Sex?

This will help you out!
Too tired for sex? Try this trick. Take a hot bath for 10 minutes and then stand up and take a quick cold shower. Your pores will be invigorated and you will have the energy rush for some great lovemaking.

42. Love Swings

It’s fun.
Love swings have been used for centuries and have gotten rave reviews for their ease of use and the ability to try many different positions. The slight swinging motion can produce intense orgasms.

43. Get A Cockring Vibrator

Sustain erection while giving her an orgasm.
A device called a cockring vibrator helps the man sustain a much longer erection while the attached vibrator stimulates the clitoris and can help bring a woman to orgasm.

44. Honey Hunt

Hunt with your tongue.
Hide a dab of honey on your body and ask your mate to find it with his or her tongue.

45. Romantic Bathing

Before and after.
Treat your girl to a romantic bath either before or after your lovemaking.

47. Use Rose Petals

Do it movie style.
Scatter rose petals over the water, light scented candles and put on some romantic music while you share in a glass of your favorite beverage.

48. Squeeze His Testicles

Be Gentle!
While your guy is thrusting, gently squeeze his testicles to the rhythm of his motion.

49. Throw Your Mobile Phone Away!

Don’t Get Distracted.
During lovemaking, get rid of your pagers, cell phones, telephones or anything else that might become a distraction.

50. Food Body-Painting

I Got Love On my tummy.
Try painting portions of your girl’s body with a paintbrush and foods such as: yogurt, syrup, ice cream or custard.

51. Lovemaking Jar

Save money and have sex.
Start a lovemaking jar. Each time you make love, put in $1, $5 or whatever you determine. Every year or every 5 years you can use the funds for a special romantic getaway.

52. Eat Some Fruits

Kissing fruits.
Fruits that are fragrant and juicy are perfect ones to eat before kissing. Try peaches, plums, pears and nectarines.

53. Open Your Mouth

Just Don’t Say “Aaa…”
A slightly open mouth makes for much more passionate kissing than a closed one.

54. Put On Some Jazz Music

Scientifically Proven.
The National Opinion Research Center has reported that Jazz listeners made love the most. Put on some Louis Armstrong!

55. Smell A Pumpkin

It’s Good for you.
The smell of pumpkin pie and lavender can increase penile flow by 40%.

56. Use Your Teeth

They are not only for smiling.
Try taking off each other’s underwear with your teeth.

57. Squeeze Some Grapes

Then lick it off.
Squeeze grapes so the juices run over his or her body. Lick/suck it off.