10 Everyday Household Items To Spice Up Your Sex Life
How To Better Sex, Sexual Ideas. Posted on Wednesday, November 5th, 2008Only a tiny percentage of people have whips, chains or gag-ball in their house, but that’s OK. Take a better look around you. Do you see anything that can spice up your sex life?
No? Well, lets see if we can find anything together.
A-ha! I found few things already. Let’s start with…
1. Belt
Look in your closet.
Don’t waste barrels of money on collection of toys from your local sex-shop. Simply grab your belt from a closet and have fun! Look at it closer. It’s not just a simple belt anymore. You can use it for many different things during intercourse or oral sex session - you will be amazed, how many things can an ordinary belt accomplish.
Use your belt to tie up your partners hands to a bed for some bondage action, use it to smack your girl (or guy) on her backside (just don’t get too excited with it).
What you say? You have more than one belt? Alright Mr. Spend-A-Lot, how about using few of your belts to tie her hands and feet or tie each other up?
I told you this belt was magical!
2. Old Clothes
Clothes make the man.
Girls have TONS of clothes that they wore for one time and are ready to throw them out. Why not to use them for the last time?
Ask your girl to put on some old clothes that she wanted to throw away for some time now and have a blast tearing them off of her. Just make sure that she is wearing clothes that she doesn’t mind having to throw away afterwards.
Just throw her on the bed and rip those clothes off!
Old pair of jeans.
Girls, do you have a pair of old jeans? Excellent!
Use your fantasy and create from those long old jeans a pair of Daisy Duke shorts.
Cut them short… In fact, cut them so short that they’re almost obscene. And how about putting that white t-shirt and pouring some water on it, just to add a little more fun…
I guarantee that after your guy sees you, you won’t be wearing them long…
3. Comb
A fine-tooth comb.
Now, go and grab that comb you haven’t used since you bought it. After all, if you don’t comb your hair it doesn’t mean that you can’t use this item for something else.
Run the comb through her hair, over her skin, across her back - anywhere.
This simple procedure will create endorphins in your girl’s body that will help her to relax the same way as if you were giving her the best massage ever.
Don’t believe me? Well ask her to do the same to you. I guarantee that next day you will run and buy all combs in your local Wallmart.
Use it alone or as a prelude to sex - it’s up to you.
4. Electric Toothbrush
A toothbrush to light up her mouth.
Don’t know what to buy as a Christmas present for your girl? The answer is really simple - electric toothbrush.
Yes, electric toothbrushes can be used for masturbation session or you can create a pretty exciting sensations during intercourse or oral sex session.
Now just to be clear, some girls have really sensitive clits, so if she is still “toothbrush-virgin” be very gentle to find out if she likes it.
You can use toothbrush with or without the brush itself (just the vibrating base).
5. Toothpaste
You can’t put the toothpaste back in the tube.
Just brush your teeth and perform cunnilingus on your girl for a mild effect. You can also dab a bit of toothpaste on your tongue for a stronger, more tingling sensation.
Your girl can do this to, while giving you a blowjob.
Believe me, you will be so surprised that such a simple, everyday item can give you such intense pleasure.
6. Spatula
Just like the lord spatula.
Want some rougher, kinkier sex? Use spatulas!
Why spend money on stuff that you can find in your house already? Don’t buy those expensive paddles at the sex-shop. The same effect can be achieved with a plastic, metal or even wooden spatula.
Want more? How about running a metal spatula under the water and sticking it in the freezer for a few minutes.
The super-cold feeling on her skin in addition to the sensation of being spanked will drive your woman wild!
Just use it when she’s REALLY “naughty”…
7. Fork
Put a fork in me, I’m done.
Want to give some spine-tingling sensations for your girl? Grab a fork. Now gently run the tines of it lightly over your girl’s vagina or breasts and nipples to send her to the moon and take back.
(Remember, I said GENTLY!)
You can also use it to scratch her head or just run it over her back to help her relax before some steamy sex.
8. Spoon
She was born with a silver spoon in her mouth.
Basically, spoon can be used in a same way as the fork, it is so much better if you want to stimulate her clitoris or nipples. Just cup her clit or nipple and send her to the ecstatic trip.
By the way, if you run the spoon under cool water for a few seconds and then place it in a freezer, before “using” it, the sensations for her will be even more intense.
9. Drinking Straws
Grasp at straws.
Now, if you have at least one drinking straw you can use it to concentrate a flow of air across your girl’s skin.
You can also try blowing on her nipples or clitoris. This works especially well if you have just licked her clit or just got them wet in some “mysterious” way. Using drinking straw will help you to concentrate the stream of air exactly there where you are aiming, which makes it so much better than just using your lips.
10. Candle Wax
The game is worth the candle
A lot of couples are afraid to use candle wax while making love mainly because they are afraid to get burned. To be totally honest with you, candle wax is not hot enough to burn you.
But it’s hot enough to give some warm, tingly feelings.
So just light a candle, let it burn for at least half an hour and then blow it out. Now take it and drip still warm wax on different parts of her naked body. The feelings are extremely voluptuous.
And don’t worry if you miss. When the wax will harden, it will pull of easily. You will be able to clean everything up in a second!
Well, that’s basically it.
But before I go, so the next time you’ll be using your toothbrush, shaving or basically using any other household item, just think… Maybe it has some other “hidden” functions too…










Hahaha! Awesome article. I’m not That kinky, but I just might try out the candle thing.
Thanks Luke!
Spanking is hot!.. Spanking with spatula is hotter!
Wow that sounds kinky , though i must admit i though the straw would be used for sucking air not blowing
I swear to God, there was this “Room Raiders” episode on MTV where one guy found electric toothbrush under one girl’s bed and she was doing with it exactly the same thing you said here!
I loved the “Ice Spatula” idea! Cudos man!
Lol! Made my day! I love your articles dude! Signing up to your newsletter right now!!!
nice one man…i actually was more into trying out new places and stuff…but to use different things for sex…it is something interesting to try
@Ed - hey, that’s a great idea. The next article will be about different places. Thanks.
@Reiner - Thanks for signing up, man.
@DingDong - I believe you.
Thanks, i will totally try out the combo: belt + old clothes + spoon
I’m a little bit embarrassed to admit, but I’ve tried at least 6 of those 10…
And I loved ALL of them! 
I see that you stole my “Spatula” method Mr. Luke! I forgive you… this time!
@Girl, indeed you will
You made my day
Actually somehow i get a feeling i should get back home…:)
@Barbara - respect, girl
It’s funny straws are on here. I love to use those to suck up my girl’s juices.
you forgot a few! blindfold her or just have her keep eyes closed and begin to experiment with different textures satin, felt, a fur lined glove…. a clean dish scrubber can be used to offset soft and smooth… one of those microfiber dusters makes an awesome tickle wand… i loved this page nothing more fun than being creative during sex!
Actually, candles are hot enough to burn.If you’re looking for a candle with a burn temperature low enough to use without burning your partner- common cheap candles that are paraffin based and additive free are best, and soy candles are a good option too. Make sure to avoid candles that are “dripless” or made of beeswax, as these burn at a temperature that could cause second or third degree burns. Make sure you give the candle a test run on yourself, well before the first time you use it on someone else.
If god had wanted you to use candle wax he would have put it in your scrotum
Mistress G’s comment should be well noted: not all candles should be used in wax-play.
Barbara - nothing in the slightest to be embarrassed about. A healthy, varied sex-life contributes greatly to a healthy relationship!
Another very simple and completely knot-free form of ‘bondage’ is a glass of water. Have your submissive/bottom assume whatever position is required and then balance an almost-full glass of water on them (their head, back, chest, etc.) That should keep them pretty still. Being careful that you don’t disturb the water yourself, gentle strokes with a feather, or mild swats on a backside with the spatula can leave them in mental agony, so to speak. Knowing they can’t so much as flinch too much makes it oh-so-sweet.
Keep it safe, keep it sane, and make sure both parties are consenting to whatever it is you choose to do.
I have used quite a lot of these ideas- damn, I love this website!
Always keep it hot and passionate!
Yea-yea-yea but you left out the tricks with the sausage, watermelon wedgies, deep blue sunglasses with the black light bulb, squirt gun and the most important one of all “the chicken!” because if you think about it, why use a feather when you can use the whole damn chicken???